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If you’re convinced that everyone else is having orgasms on orgasms while you’re just waiting around, frustrated and climax-less in your bed, here’s something that may soothe your sexual frustration: Plenty of women have trouble reaching orgasm. In fact, according to a recent study in the  Archives of Sexual Behavior , only 65 percent of women are able to have orgasms during intercourse. That means 35 percent of women can’t orgasm from sex. And beyond that, there are also many women who can’t orgasm ever. “If you’ve never had an orgasm, examining potential inhibitory issues can be incredibly helpful,” says Kat Van Kirk, an AASECT-certified sex therapist and author of  The Married Sex Solution: A Realistic Guide to Saving Your Sex Life . What the eff is holding me back? It could be anything from negative self-talk, to intimacy issues, to side effects of medications that impact your libido. One common problem: You haven’t gotten a chance to know yourself. “It’s ...